Belly Dancing and Stripping

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Okay-I am only bringing this up because I saw it posted in a blog about a belly dancer who is also a stripper--

My issue with this is that she uses her stage name for both her stripping gigs AND her belly dance gigs....

Doesnt this just feed into the stearotype that belly dancers are strippers??

I have no issues with women who strip...if you can express yourself through dance go for it---

But dont use your belly dance name also for your stripper name.....

Just my two cents.

Anyone else?
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  • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

    Wed, May 16, 2007 - 2:06 PM
    I too agree, some people look at belly dancers as strippers as it is, I don't think we need to add fuel to the fires. I too have no problem in people stripping in dance, but that not what I do and think it would be better to keep them very serperate! xxx
  • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

    Wed, May 16, 2007 - 2:34 PM
    When I read this - all I thought to myself was "Oh Gawd! Not again!" Huge sigh. This just leaves me exhuasted everytime someone mixes the two - because we have to battle so hard against all the stereotypes. When will they learn that it totally screws things up for the rest of us who actually care about not being put into the "I'm a stripper, watch me shake my sequined @$$" catagory?

    Sorry - just had to rant and get that off my chest. Really - stuff like that is the reason why I've had stupid drunk guys screaming for me to "take it all off" when dressed completelyy covered/traditional saidi style. Only hands and face showing (not even my hair). And I'm sure I'm not the only one who this has happened to....
    • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

      Wed, May 16, 2007 - 10:03 PM
      While I agree that she shouldn't confuse matters by using the same name, I wouldn't go so far as to blame her for popular misconceptions about belly dancers. Those guys who shout "Take it all off!" at belly dancers probably also shout it at random women on the street, who they also have no reason to assume are strippers. These guys are just expressing their opinion that they would prefer more women to strip for them. Or, maybe strippers are the only women they interact with on a regular basis, so they assume all women are strippers.

      Oafish guys are going to reveal their social ineptitude with or without encouragement from this one belly dancer/stripper, so I don't think she'll really have much effect on their behavior. But for her own convenience, I'd think she'd want to use two different stage names, so that she'll know how to respond if someone calls asking for a performance from "Scheherezad" of "Fifi."
      • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

        Fri, May 18, 2007 - 8:58 AM
        "These guys are just expressing their opinion that they would prefer more women to strip for them." ROFL! :) That seems to be a very popular opinion.

        I can see both perspectives on this one. On the one hand, I try my best to keep my bellydance life and my day-job life separate from more personal stuff. On the other hand, it sometimes feels like a huge double standard. For instance, I'm dancing at an event that is being organized by a DJ who is prominent in the local fetish/BDSM scene (he DJs fetish parties). Everybody knows what he's into -- when I mentioned that he's running the event to a local Goth friend, he started telling me details of this guy's sex life! Meanwhile, this guy is organizing an event to benefit a local AIDS clinic, non-fetish-related, and no one gives him a hard time or tells him to use a different name or otherwise keep it separate lest people get the wrong impression. He can even go to local BDSM clubs and websites and promote the event using his personal "brand" (no pun intended!) to sell it. Whereas I am bellydancing in the party, and if I were part of that scene, I'd be expected to keep it quiet and not mention it to the same people, because they might think that I was doing something *dirty,* and that would be bad for bellydancers and possibly put me at risk.

        It sort of feels like we women have to watch what we do and say all the time because men might take it as a cue that it's ok to harass us or worse. Honestly, let's say I was a stripper. Would it be ok for a guy to catcall me and tell me to "take it off" at times when I WASN'T performing as a stripper? Hell no! I don't care whether a woman is a nun, a stripper, a prostitute, Ann Coulter... guys should learn that ALL of us deserve to be treated with the same respect they'd give to their mother or sister. And girls should learn early on to demand that respect and not take catcalls and harassment as a compliment. It's totally unfair that, the way things are right now, women have to hide parts of themselves to avoid other people's bad behavior.
    • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

      Mon, May 21, 2007 - 6:11 AM
      My mother is a little unstable and belongs to an odd religious group. When they learned I'd be dancing at a street fest the group sent "secret photographers" to "catch" me "in the act dancing nekked in the street".
      It was one of those sunny but cool days, and I knew I'd be there all day, so I dressed for comfort. Big harem pants, a skirt, a hip length hippie top, hipscarf, headscarf. Basically, the only thing showing was my hands, face, and feet.
      The "spies" were stunned. At first they walked right by us. Then they started asking people where were the bellydancers? When people pointed to us, they said "But those girls are wearing clothes! They're all covered up!"
      I'd like to say I was able to educate some people that day, but I'm not sure if I had any success or not. This is a group where the pastor has a Halloween toy that attaches to a phone and distorts the caller's voice. He uses it to make crank phone calls pretending to do surveys on families (I works in animal rescue so on several calls to me he pretends he has to dump a pet). Usually he does this on a speaker phone with a group present, often recording the conversations without permission (hello, that's illegal!!), and he gets very nasty and belligerent. But this religious group thinks that's ok, as long as he is doing it to people (like me) who refuse to join the group.
      Some people are really sad and messed up.
      • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

        Mon, May 21, 2007 - 10:27 AM
        And just exactly *what* were they going to do with these pictures?

        Not to get off subject but...everything you have described that the pastor is doing *is* illegal. Whilst religious groups (as defined by US standards) have certain rights legally in regards to belief, those beliefs cannot be used to justify acts such as violation of privacy nor potential acts of extortion. They cannot be used to justify physical or emotional violence either. I am sorry you are experiencing this Helen and you do have legal rights should you choose to pursue them. I hope all the dancers on the board keep this in mind as well since we are not only subject to ignorance (more often then not) but intolerance as well and that is never acceptable regardless of individual beliefs.


        Oh...and my vote is to keep things seperate. I am sure though that there are quite a few exotic dancers who perform belly dance and thus label themselves as such ie...exotic belly dancer. I am curious what the intent of the dancer in question is though. Does she really want to keep things seperate or be identified with both. If the latter then I would hope she would properly 'label' her performances as such because otherwise it is not fair to those who have worked so hard for so long to distinguish between the two forms.
        • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

          Mon, May 21, 2007 - 10:42 AM
          I would imagine that she would want to be identified with both, just as I want to be identified with both my dancing and my writing. It sucks to have to keep parts of your identity separate -- I imagine being a stripper and a belly dancer and trying to keep them apart would be like (lame analogy warning!) in the Spiderman movies when he's trying to protect his friends and family from knowing that he's Spiderman. He loves them, but he can't really share his life with them. The stripper probably has friends who know her from the strip club, and she wants them to see her belly dance, well, for the same reasons that the rest of us are always dragging our friends to our performances.
        • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

          Fri, June 1, 2007 - 5:58 AM
          I don't have a clue what they thought they would do with the pictures. I do know they passed them around "church". But that's actually a good thing, in a way, because more people saw what we were actually doing... As for legal action, I've taken it. I've also learned that they manage to get themselves into far worse trouble than anything I could cause ... It's nice to see Karma in action!
  • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

    Wed, May 16, 2007 - 3:26 PM
    Just wondering - who would notice and who would get confused? I am rather clueless about the audience of a stripper, but I would assume that there is not much overlap between the people who see Sheherazade (I just picked a name from literature, not refering to any person) the belly dancer and Sheherazade the stripper. How many audience members e.g. in a restaurant would ever know that dancer's other occupation and stage name?
    • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

      Wed, May 16, 2007 - 3:31 PM
      I think every man I know has visited a strip club at least ONCE! I think the chances of them being the same people who also patronize ethinic restaruants are pretty good. I mean, guys who go to strip clubs eventually have to eat, right?
      • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

        Wed, May 16, 2007 - 6:46 PM
        Well, if the bulk of men go to strip clubs, there has to be overlap.
        • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

          Thu, May 17, 2007 - 4:32 AM
          One afternoon while lifeguarding at our local YMCA, I was chatting with a patron and I mentioned that I was the bellydance teacher at the very same YMCA. The first thing out of his mouth was along the lines of...do you dance with a pole? I calmly (barely) explained that no, I don't - and that the bra stays on since it cost $300.

          Yeah, I've got yer pole, buddy...guess where I'm gonna stick it....
          • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

            Thu, May 17, 2007 - 6:12 AM
            I have a co-worker who was forever making "brass pole" comments to me, despite the fact that I have told her countless times "it's not that kind of exotic dancing" and she's even seen me dance.

            The thing that finally made her stop was me finding her a teacher in her area, and getting her to start taking classes... I think sh'ed finally starting to get it...

            I think the key to curing the curing the general public of their ignorance is to educate them. When someone makes a comment aligning bellydance with stripping, just keep doing what I'm sure many of us already, take a deep breath, calmly explain that it is a legit and tasteful artform, and invite them to see you dance sometime so that they can see first hand. Than again, maybe I'm just too idealistic...

            :o}
            • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

              Thu, May 17, 2007 - 8:26 AM
              "Those guys who shout "Take it all off!" at belly dancers probably also shout it at random women on the street, who they also have no reason to assume are strippers. "

              I respectfully disagree. I've been around this block quite a few times.... from all over the streets of NYC, the boroughs, and now the desert southwest. The *ONLY* time any dude has ever shouted "take it off" was when I was in full BD gear! Apparently, the skirt down to the tops of my feet were a dead giveaway that I was a stripper! (WhataMORON!!!!)

              My BF talks about me quite a bit. I've asked him if he tells people I'm a BDer. He says yes. Then I asked him what do people assume when they hear that? He said stripper. Of course he does his part to educate these buffoons but it's still out there. And Leyla Shapoopie performing in a bedleh at her local Turkish restaurant and then leaving and going to Boobtown to perform, also as Leyla Shapoopie, isn't doing us any favors. If she wants to dance both, then fine. But for chrissakes, at least change your name and maybe do your hair differently!
              • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

                Thu, May 17, 2007 - 10:55 AM
                "Those guys who shout "Take it all off!" at belly dancers probably also shout it at random women on the street, who they also have no reason to assume are strippers. "

                All I have to say is "Wrong!" Read my earlier post...
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            Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

            Thu, May 17, 2007 - 8:22 AM
            Oh man, that really peeves me!! I get it all the time from friends, friends of friends, some family members...or I like to call them, uneducated ignorant people. I dont think belly dancers will ever get passed the stereotypical expectation of belly dancing having something to do with stripping. I think thats the reason why my boyfriend doesnt really like it known that I belly dance, because of the reaction people have when they hear it. Where as with me, oh hell, I'm proud to be a belly dancer, I announce it whenever I feel the time is right. Mostly, because I know the true intentions behind the dance. But alot of times I have to hold back from saying anything because I know that the person I am talking to at the time will misconstrue it and feed into the massive stereotype. Just this weekend, my mom ran into an old friend(we were really cool back when) and he asked how I was and she told him I was belly dancing and he said, "What??..you mean she dances on a pole and all that?!"
            I mean, come on...how hard is it to distunguish, just from the words alone, that BELLY DANCING is NOT STRIPPING nor POLE DANCING?!!
            I tell you, if this were my world, ignorance would be punishable by death.
            • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

              Thu, May 17, 2007 - 3:08 PM
              Yeah. My mom thought I was stripping for 2 years before I brought home a video of me dancing at a local festival. She was like. "Oh! but you're all covered up!" (I do a LOT of folkloric stuff). I had to sit her down and educate her. Sigh.
          • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

            Thu, May 17, 2007 - 3:19 PM
            <Yeah, I've got yer pole, buddy...guess where I'm gonna stick it.... >

            I about died laughing when I read that. See ya tonight.

            But Fabala.... We're going to have to have a hard, heart-to-heart discusson about your carrying that pole around everywhere you go. We're begging you please, please, Please! before we have to do a full-out intervention... We're begging you, Sweet Pea. Your friends who love you want you to Please. Leave. The. Pole. At. Home.... You almost caused a wreck last week with it sticking out of your car window while driving into the parking garage.... If you don't, you're new name may be changing to "Fabala the Impaler" LOL ;-P
            • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

              Thu, May 17, 2007 - 3:29 PM
              No!!! I like the idea of Fabala the Impaler out there...

              **FABALA THE IMPALER.... DEFENDER OF BELLYDANCERS EVERYWHERE!!!**

              She's our new Superhero!!
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                Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

                Thu, May 17, 2007 - 4:54 PM
                On a slightly different note, I get really bugged by the men (and occasionally women) who say they can shake their bellies too...and they're usually at least slightly overweight. They think it's a joke, but it got old the FIRST time I heard it.

                I actually offended a friend of mine when I finally got angry and went into a controlled vent about how this is an art form, it takes years to learn it if you were not lucky enough to grow up in the culture, and BTW how would he like it if I made fun of his Native American dances that way? It has put a damper in our friendship which I regret, but he has never mentioned it again.

                Maybe having Fabala the Impaler simply come by his house and threaten him with the pole would have been easier on the friendship...? :)
                • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

                  Thu, May 17, 2007 - 7:52 PM
                  It may be just me, but if a "friend" doesn't have respect for something I hold so dear, then that person isn't a real friend anyway. It's like saying to someone who has spent hours a day for years honing guitar skills only for me to say "anybody can strum a few strings!" Yeah, I'd expect I'd probably get hit on the head with a Fender!
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                    Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

                    Thu, May 17, 2007 - 9:47 PM
                    I've worked as a musician in both venues. My first professional job was playing drums for "old school" style burlesque "striptease" artists in a downtown NYC in the late 1960's. I was in my late teens and I thought that the dancers were old (some of them were in their 30's....children by my standards now). These performers are trained dancers with certain skills. While I was in college and a bit after, I worked part-time as a bouncer in a topless club (that's a very different thing than strippers). These young ladies very often had serious dancing skills also. Some of it was very "seedy" and some of it wasn't. That was all in a previous life for me that I haven't been involved in since the 70's.
                    The character of what these "exotic" dancers did and how they were looked upon is very different than the life of a cabaret bellydancer. Bellydancers are more akin to a cabaret singer and musician in terms of the type of life that they have on stage than to an exotic dancer. Just like a club singer, the bellydancer performs an act that is to be enjoyed equally by men and women, young and old, it can have sensual elements to it, but its intent is not to arouse prurient interest.
                    Certainly, the public has a very distorted image of all people in the arts. It is assumed that all musicians are heavy drug users. It is assumed that all exotic dancers are harlots and it is assumed that bellydancers are just like strippers. The public assumes that all creative people especially visual artists and male dancers are gay. They assume that all classical musicians are conservative "stuff-shirts" (anyone that has partied with classical musicians can easily attest to the falsehood of that). The public continually makes invalid judgements of almost everybody. ......... So? You're not going to change them.
                    Almost ALL women performers at one time or another are made to feel uncomfortable by club owners or promoters that are making a move on them. Very often there is a respectable person that intervenes and helps out and even more often the lady handles it themselves; but there is a lot of gossip (usually by the spurned lech) and a perfectly respectable lady can have her reputation tarnished. This has happened for centuries. It certainly isn't right, it's sleezy and should never happen..... but it does.
                    I was at a performance in New York a couple of months ago that featured bellydancers, fire dancers and strippers (old school style) and it was a blast. The acts couldn't have been more different. All of the performers were skilled show-people and it was a dynamic show,
                    Of the three types of dance, the bellydancers were the "G" rated version. It was a good parallel for this discussion
                • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

                  Thu, May 31, 2007 - 4:07 PM
                  >>On a slightly different note, I get really bugged by the men (and occasionally women) who say they can shake their bellies too...and they're usually at least slightly overweight. They think it's a joke, but it got old the FIRST time I heard it. <<<

                  Normally I get annoyed at this too but my troupe recently did a gig at a private party. Afterwards we went out for a drink and this really cute hippy-boy (early 20's) approached us with a charming smile and said something along those lines. We rolled our eyes and said, "yeah, ok, lets see it..." he then proceeded to do the ... most... amazing.... bellyrolls I have ever seen!
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                    Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

                    Thu, May 31, 2007 - 7:14 PM
                    When my daughter was about 5 years old she discovered she could do a belly roll. How? She watched me perform one evening. Yes, ONE evening. But it's a belly roll. It's not uncommon for men women and kids alike who have never studied the art to be able to do a bellyroll. But ask them to do any sort of core isolations. Or a flat-footed maya (a.k.a. vertical hip fig. 8). Or an upper body undulation without bringing the shoulders into the movement.... yeah.... and that's when you'll start to get blank stares.

                    Seriously... I agree with comment that before we can expect others to respect our artform, it has to come from within. We as dancers need to separate BD from "exotic" dance and not blend the two (if any of us happens to do the two). I personally don't care if ALL the BDers I know also work in strip clubs, as long as they are doing it under different names and with different "personas".... you know... different looks (hair, makeup, whatever).
                • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

                  Fri, June 1, 2007 - 11:42 AM
                  <i>On a slightly different note, I get really bugged by the men (and occasionally women) who say they can shake their bellies too...and they're usually at least slightly overweight. They think it's a joke, but it got old the FIRST time I heard it.
                  </i>

                  Meh. I think it's just someone awkwardly trying to be friendly. I just laugh and say, "that's great, now can you do it to the music while moving your feet and playing finger cymbals? I can. At least you've got a start on it." and remain friendly. Never know who they might be, and if they may be sizing me up for a hired gig. (no pun intended).
          • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

            Sun, May 20, 2007 - 4:23 PM
            People should REALLY get educated. Not every woman dancing, or performing, is doing it to please men in some way, or even to be seen as erotic!!! I got an e-mail here on Tribe from some guy who started the whole letter with "mmmmmmmmm" and then told me that gothic bellydance is really erotic... I told him to consider the fact that I didn't do it to be sexy or arouse men. He explained it was a compliment, and I told him that men are easily aroused, and that's fact of nature, not a compliment. I also told him to keep it in his pants til someone actually asked to get him panting on e-mail about his aroused feelings. I wonder why men are so eager to tell us about their arousal. Sometimes I feel like if it's male and breathing it IS aroused... No need to mention it, then. This "take it all off"-behaviour probably occurs when the arousal takes care of most of the blood flow, and the blood left upstairs only covers basic fuctions (those of the limbic system; feeding, mating and aggression)...

            With this said, no need to make things worse for fellow dancers by stripping and making it clear that one is both bellydancer and stripper. We get enough of the shit already!
  • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

    Thu, May 17, 2007 - 9:55 AM
    This really disturbs me!!!!
    It takes years for a bellydancer to train her muscles and learn proper dance techniques. Not to mention the other aspects of the dance. unfortunatly, bellydance is such a sensual, and exotic dance we can't get away from that stereotype.
    • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

      Thu, May 17, 2007 - 11:34 AM
      We CAN get away from that stereotype by fighting it and showing that it's not true. Just because it's a sensual dance does not mean it HAS to be stripping.

      Accepting that stereotype, not changing your dance names between jobs, and other such behavior only perpetuates that backwards thinking. Every person who knows anything about this dance should do herself and everybody else a favor by not taking this kind of crap.
  • Strip tease belly dance

    Fri, May 18, 2007 - 4:03 PM
    We have strip tease belly dance here in Louisville. I was taken aback a bit when I first read about it in December, but then I met some of them... They are a bunch of jolly youngsters, some of them gym instructors, who are fascinated with the belly dance side of the situation... I met them at a costume seminar and they got more fun out of the backdrop provided for photographs than any other group I have ever met. I notice the recent advertising has been toned down to 'tease' dancing lately-- I kind of wondered how the Catholic-run Clifton center was going to feel about the resident belly dance studio holding strip-tease classes...

    Remind me NOT to tell you about some of the things I did in the late sixties and early seventies....
  • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

    Tue, May 22, 2007 - 11:22 AM
    Belly dancers have to work harder than othre dancers at being taken seriously. That dancer that is also a stripper should know this. I think it's not very helpful to the bellydance community to be a stripper and a bellydancer. Especially if you're not going to seperate the two into different catagories. People who think it's ok to mix the two but it's not because it makes it harder for everyone else. We are held to a higher standard. I spend a lot of time trying to educate people and when someone puts an ad in the newspaper for cardio bellydance/poledance classes it sets us all back! gah!
    My grandma still thinks I'm some sort of stripper to this day. I think she tells people I do square dancing. One of my aunts pointed to a picture of a red haired square dancer in the paper one day and asked if it was me. blah!
  • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

    Thu, May 31, 2007 - 9:40 AM
    I agree with Jeffery that the public has many misconceptions about art and artists, and that we, the artists, are not going to change most of them no matter what we do. With that being said, I do believe that we, the bellydancers, have a responsibility not to encourage the stereotype of bellydancer as stripper. I don't think we should go out preaching our doctrine of "this is an artform that takes years of practice and an intense amount of skill to achieve" because the general public isn't going to listen anyway. Even though we know the amount of work and dedication involved, that knowledge, isn't going to change people's opinions, but....I do think when we are faced with questions from the general public about what we do as bellydancers, we should answer appropriately and with the most accurate information possible. This is how we are going to change the public's misconceptions about bellydancing and stripping being the same.

    The reason I say this is because I witnessed a situation with one of my own troupemates recently that dealt specificially with this problem. The situation made me cringe and it also made me realize that many bellydancers continue to feed the old 'stripper' stereotype. Here's a quick summary of what I saw. I was in my local fabric store waiting to have my fabric cut. One of my troupemates was already being waited on (it was a coincidence that we were in the store at the same time, we hadn't come together). She had MOUNDS of stuff to measure and cut, much of it was sequins trim, chiffon and metallic material. The fabric store employee asked, as they often do of customers, what she was making out of all these items. My troupemate answered that she was making costumes for bellydancing, she said "because I'm a bellydancer, you know, an exotic dancer"!!!! WHAT????? I was mortified. Then she turns to me and says to the employee, "she's a dancer in my troupe too". Wonderful, thanks for sucking me into your world of exotic dancing. I didn't say anything. I wanted to correct her and educate the employees behind the cutting counter, but at the time we were having serious troupe issues with this member and this was the first time I had seen her since a big blowout between her and other members. I didn't want to add fuel to the fire, so I kept my mouth shut, but looking back I should have corrected her. I understood what she was trying to say to the girl, that we were 'ethnic' dancers, dancing 'oriental dance', but she said EXOTIC dancers. To me exotic dancing equals stripping. Maybe exotic can be used to describe bellydance because it is dancing that is not common and of the other, but when the general public hears exotic dance it thinks stripping. She should have chosen her words more carefully. It was her responsibility to accurately decribe the dance she studies, but she blew a great opportunity to educate someone interested in what she does, and she'll never get the same opportunity again.

    The best way for us to change the public's perception of us is to represent bellydancing with dignity and respect. When we treat our artform with the reverence it deserves, other's will see it and begin to treat it the same way. As for those crazy religious zealots and the like, well, no one will ever change their opinions, so we might as well not even waste the energy.
    • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

      Sun, June 3, 2007 - 6:49 AM
      I think the two should be kept separate. If people mix it up that bad, how come they don't when it comes to paying?

      Also I would like to point out that exotic has been used at least twice in this thread to mean erotic. According to the Merriam-Webster Dictionary:

      Exotic 1: introduced from a foreign country (-plants) 2: strikingly, excitingly, or mysteriously different or unusual (-flavors)

      Erotic :relating to or dealing with sexual love : AMATORY (-art)

      I deal in landscaping also and believe me that nobody believes exotic invasive plants are at all sexy.

      Cindy
      • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

        Sun, June 3, 2007 - 7:08 AM
        <<I deal in landscaping also and believe me that nobody believes exotic invasive plants are at all sexy>>>

        I think most people are fully aware of the difference between exotic and erotic, but "exotic dancing" is frequently used in marketing to describe stripping and/or topless dancing. In the public's mind, that's what they think about when they hear the term exotic dancing.
      • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

        Mon, June 4, 2007 - 10:08 AM
        >I deal in landscaping also and believe me that nobody believes exotic invasive plants are at all sexy. <

        I do! I do!
        ;-)

        seriously, though--you're absolutely right, Cindy. Unfortunately the difference between the connotative meaning of a word and its denotative meaning causes trouble all the time (which is why my 9 and 7 year olds both know the words connotative and denotative. "Mom, what does this mean?" "Well, honey, *denotatively* it means this, but *connotatively*....").
        Yep, I'm a belly dancin' word freak......
    • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

      Mon, June 4, 2007 - 4:33 AM
      "The best way for us to change the public's perception of us is to represent bellydancing with dignity and respect. When we treat our artform with the reverence it deserves, other's will see it and begin to treat it the same way. As for those crazy religious zealots and the like, well, no one will ever change their opinions, so we might as well not even waste the energy."

      I think you are very right. I am never going to justify myself for doing bellydance. And I am an individual, so noone can tell me that bellydance is this or that - whatever they might have seen before. I can say with a lot of self confidence that it's an ancient art practised worldwide, that is very beautiful, intricate and mysterious...start off with the differentiation of saidi, balady and classical raqs sharqi, only if they hear the word "classical" they will already doubt if there is stripping involved or if they have seen the same thing that I'm talking about - and that's the point, make them doubt.

      There are some bellydancers - usually not professionals - that have the same attitude when bellydancing as if they were strippers. They have found it a nice way of teasing and pleasing men and think that this is the reason why it should be done. I know a woman who has a slight misconception in this direction, and I try to talk to her without offending her. she is a little naive but a friendly and generous person so no point in attacking and hurting her.

      The good thing: none of our local teachers supports doubtful crossovers. This would be a problem indeed. It is complicated with bellydance, because there are fine lines some people mightn't see. A big hip circle is a beautiful thing, but it has a different connotation if a dancer does it with the back to the public, sticking her bottom into their faces...
  • Re: Belly Dancing and Stripping

    Sun, June 3, 2007 - 10:17 AM
    I suspect John and Joanna Q Public suspect that every female performer of any kind has a darker side that isn't advertised publically... especially with the media broadcasting the 24/7 activities of every performer of any status, dwelling of course on the sordid. Who is insulated from this? Female singers? Actors? Poets? Photographers, movie makers, scultper? Dancers of any type? (Anybody else read 'Dancing on My Grave?')

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