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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Wed, April 9, 2008 - 10:22 PMWell, he is wrong about one thing... the definition does not necessarily include nudity. The original meaning is more like broad humor, spoof, and parody, and admittedly (occasionally) striptease. It's closely related to slapstick.
I disagree with much of what he says, but this particular point is one of fact and not of opinion.
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Wed, April 9, 2008 - 10:26 PMI should also add that it's pretty clear he's never seen BD/Burlesque fusion being performed, or at least not the kind I have seen.
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Thu, April 10, 2008 - 12:31 AMI'm really confused by his opinions actually as I do Lucha Va Voom here in LA and I know of several dancers that have at one time been on the BDSS tour that also do burlesque shows...
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Thu, April 10, 2008 - 4:53 AMI posted this in my blog recently--I dont perform Burlesque myself (self esteem issues) but I am a belly dancer. This was my blog entry.
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Burlesque Dancers and Belly Dancers do have a lot in common---more than either party will ever care to admit.
We are both part of a sub-culture of amazing beauty and talent that encompasses all body shapes, sizes, ethnicities and ages.
We are both part of a sub-culture that supports everyone's idea of creativity.
When it comes to American history, we are both part of a dance form that has been around in the US since the late Victorian era.
We are both part of a misunderstood dance form.
I was amazed to see women of all ages, shapes and backgrounds mingling. It was like being at belly dance hafla. Even though I have never done nor seen a Burlesque Show, I could relate to these women. (This was my first Burlesque Show).
We DANCERS---whether belly dance or burlesque---embody all that is beautiful and self confident in women. Whether its with a bedlah and some zills, or some frilly panties and some pasties---its embodied all that is strong and beautiful about womanhood. Its about reclaiming what we have been told is wrong--unclean--evil--and sinful. The idea that a woman's body is sinful and is shut away in the dark recesses of the mind whenever a beautiful belly dancer takes the stages and undulates and shimmies to the sound of drums----or when a burlesque dancer ARTFULLY and TASETFULLY removes articles of clothing to reveal their beautiful body.
While I doubt I will EVER have the self confidence to do burlesque (yeah I guess I do have some self esteem issues) I praise these women for doing their beautiful and amazing art. For being proud of themselves. For being beautiful. For celebrating their womanhood through dance.
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----(and by the way-I have issues with Miles Copeland and really dont give a rats flying ass about what he says...A few years ago-and I still have the blurb-he made a comment posted in Habibi magazine that he cant help but wonder what these belly dancers must be like in bed--seriously Miles!? C'mon!) -
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Thu, April 10, 2008 - 5:21 AMZehara, I think the beautiful power of the female body is the problem. I do enjoy it myself, haha, but I guess men are scared by the power it has over them, so they either lock the bodies up under lots of cloth or try to put psychological pressure on women. Both of which I don't think are good solutions. But when teenagers go to school with string tangas looking out of their trousers, the boys have a hard time following the class. I remember also a a place rom a Houellebecq-book where women talk about freedom of self expression, not wanting to appear old-fashioned by badmouthing their co worker that came to work in a tiny mini-skirt during several days The narrator made a pretty sarcastical comment about the state all male co-workers were in thanks to her self-expression.
Power is such a thing. It makes you feel fantastic, but power mustn't be abused in a sense of making others feel defenseless. We women should consider this at times, too. The above examples are there to illustrate the abuse, which may be just naive, or else, calculated.
(I don't mean that burlesque is bad or that Miles Copeland is right. I do believe in artistical freedom but what is good for one isn't necessarily good for someone else. This side of the coin I wanted to mention, because female power is often quoted, and it is what it is: power, which is always ambigouus and asks for a responsible and considerate way of using it). -
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Thu, April 10, 2008 - 5:28 AMThe other bit, Burlesque dancers are NUDE! They keep their panties on as well as their pasties--and do tasetful dancing. -
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Thu, April 10, 2008 - 5:30 AMsorry--should be are NOT NUDE!!! (grabs another cup of coffee!) -
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Tue, April 22, 2008 - 1:39 PMI wouldn't use pasties and thongs as the saving grace of burlesque from nude-dom. I mean, you can say, well, I'm 5% clothed, but really, you're also 95% nude! Just because someone doesn't take all their clothes off doesn't necessarily mean that its tasteful, family friendly, wholesome, or artistic
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Thu, April 10, 2008 - 5:28 AM(adding to my longlonglong talk: I guess the reaction Miles Copeland encounters in the Middle East is: see where you're getting with giving the women all these right? First bellydance, now burlesque, give them an inch and they take a mile...). I believe that he is hoping for some middle grounds which I doubt there are, maximum would be a balance of powers/powers keeping each other in check.
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What rant?
Thu, April 10, 2008 - 5:54 AMSeems more like a strongly-worded opinion to me, and no more manipulative than a lot of the rants we post here on tribe. I have some strong opinions, too. One side of the coin: ask me how I feel when some drunk guy comes up to daughter after a completely-tasteful performance and asks her to explain how women manage to get tassels twirling in opposite directions. Another side of the coin: if you use the word belly-dance in your promotional materials, you get all the implications, connotations, and history that goes with it... and belly dance and hoochie-coohie and burlesque and all the rest of that seem to have gotten well tangled up together about five years after Middle-Eastern dance hit American shores. Yet another side of the coin: a few years ago, daughter participated in a benefit show that included burlesque dancers as well as belly dancers and the audience was completely respectful and enthusiastic and quite able to distinguish between belly dance, comedy and burlesque.
As far as belly dance in the West acting to elevate its status in Arab society and the elevation of the dancers in those societies... well, does it work that way? Belly dance is becoming more and more popular in the West and less and less possible in Egypt, I hear. Aside from arguments about quality vs quantity, I would think that the oft-expressed connection between belly dance and women's self-esteem and empowerment would cause as much of a problem as the possible link with burlesque. My take on that part of Mile's article was that it was more rabble-rousing than factual but I'm no expert on the matter. If it IS true, Miles needs to re-write it so that it is more convincing to non-experts such as myself. If it's NOT-so-true, then leave it out. Being worried about burlesque-belly-dance connections hurting his business is reason enough for the article.
I hope he does a follow-up stating whether or not it DOES hurt his business over the long term.
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Thu, April 10, 2008 - 6:31 AMI agree with Miles in that the general public can be easily confused and that it can be dangerous to mix the two art forms. Other than that, I think he just blasted out his opinion without learning any facts, like he tends to do. -
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Thu, April 10, 2008 - 7:09 AMI think that's true, to some extent, but I was pleasantly surprised at school when the guys understood I'm not a stripper when I told them that I belly dance -
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Thu, April 10, 2008 - 7:30 AMI have to admire Miles Copeland for his passion on this subject. In an age where it seems that all producers and promoters are out only to "make a buck", Mr. Copeland has taken the route of really defending the art of belly dancing from its detractors.
Having said that, I personally would not diminish the creativity of other forms of dance or make a blanket statement against this kind of fusion, but I am not a promoter. I am actually pleased to read this from him because it is a bold statement and highlights his care and concern for the art. -
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Thu, April 10, 2008 - 9:20 AMI only found the article entertaining in that good ol' MC doesn't realize how many of his audiences think that a few of the BDSS acts are pushing the Burlesque border (and making some people seriously unhappy about what the BDSS are associating with bellydance).... Guess it's all in the eye of the beholder.
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Sat, April 12, 2008 - 10:18 PMI am with Jeffrey.. and Miles.. the two arts should remain seperate. Yes they are both arts.. they both have their place - but need to stay seperate. Burlesque intends from the beginning to bring a specific thought to mind. It is intended to be sexual.
belly dance on the other hand is a dancer translating the music that is playing so that the audiance can understand the passion and meaning in the song. There is not an intent to dance "sexual" in belly dance.
[my teacher for one has warned all of us very LOUD AND CLEAR.. "if I see you gyrating or showing sexual inuendo at any time on the stage..when you are representing belly dance.. I will promtly remove us from the stage"]
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Thu, April 10, 2008 - 9:12 AMI just got back from the Philippines and I'm happy to report that people there see bellydance as a "women's exercise", and don't associate it with sex/stripping at all. I wonder if that bad impression is primarily an American one?
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Thu, April 10, 2008 - 7:08 AMWhile not my cup of tea, I don't see why he's so close-minded about that kind of fusion, as long as it's done in an appropriate venue and not billed strictly as bellydance. -
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Sat, April 12, 2008 - 10:22 PMAlexia.. burelsque is not a fusion with belly dance.. definitly not like "fushion" aka Rachel Brice[and others]
It is a step back for belly dance when the public refers it that way. Haven;t we had many MANY discussions on this very tribe about someone getting a call to "dance" at a bachelor party.. or private house party for 1..???
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Sun, April 13, 2008 - 9:05 AMI think it's how you define "inappropriate." I personally see a few touches of burlesque in plenty of things people do, like fishnets and the garter pants. I immediately thought "burlesque" when I saw that. Is that inappropriate? This isn't meant to slight Rachel Brice or the rest of the people who choose that garb, but I did think burlesque inspired.
I stand by my opinion that there may be certain events where it's appropriate. Some people do some very sexual forms of belly dance or wear costumes that are more skin than costume, performing pieces titled things like "Kama Sutra", and many other examples but know when and where to clean it up when pointing it out to the general public. Even things with the word "sultan" in it have sexual connotations to the general public. I would argue things like that are more detrimental to the dance community than someone who clearly labels what they do as what it is.
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Thu, April 10, 2008 - 7:45 AMWell, who would've thought I'd be agreeing with Miles.... kudos to him, for a change!
Tho of course burlesque is not always nudity for sure. But no, I don't think burlesque is ultimately empowering... it's really just a big step back-ass-wards haha
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Thu, April 10, 2008 - 9:11 AMI agree & disagree.
First, I believe burlesque is an artform, part of the vaudeville tradition - and I love seeing it come back. I have a friend who is really involved in doing vaudeville shows, and her burlesque routines don't always involve stripping. I performed in a show with her a few weeks ago where my main role was comedy, and there was absolutely no stripping, although I did have to look pretty & glam for the part. As someone else pointed out, there is often comedy, commentary, dancing, singing, instrument-playing as well as 'stripping' and I don't think Miles has seen many burlesque shows if he missed all of those other elements. In the vaudeville troupe I am a part of, there has been a ukelele player, a banjo player, scenes of "chorus girl" dancing where the entire staff of the show is on stage, comedy, straight-up burlesque, even a clown. So when Miles said that there is nothing creative or artistic about burlesque, I think he is very wrong, but I can only assume he has never seen a burlesque show.
I do agree that we need to keep burlesque and bellydance separate, not associated at all. If I start pursuing burlesque as an art form, I will have another stage name for it and I will not advertise both in the same website, etc etc. This is not just for my own reputation as a bellydancer, but for ALL bellydancers. I am not ashamed of sex or nudity in the slightest and I think it would be a wonderful world where women and men could do as they pleased without judgement. But while there is judgement of sex & nudity, I respect the artform of bellydance enough that I would want to keep it safe from "bad" associations. I would like bellydance to be seen as a family-oriented entertainment, a cultural artform, not sexual titilation. I don't think sexual titilation is bad but other people do..... so why sully bellydance's reputation when it does nothing to deserve that reputation (except for some dancers who do not care what impression they project). -
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Thu, April 10, 2008 - 11:28 AM"I do agree that we need to keep burlesque and bellydance separate, not associated at all. If I start pursuing burlesque as an art form, I will have another stage name for it and I will not advertise both in the same website, etc etc. This is not just for my own reputation as a bellydancer, but for ALL bellydancers. I am not ashamed of sex or nudity in the slightest and I think it would be a wonderful world where women and men could do as they pleased without judgement. But while there is judgement of sex & nudity, I respect the artform of bellydance enough that I would want to keep it safe from "bad" associations. I would like bellydance to be seen as a family-oriented entertainment, a cultural artform, not sexual titilation. I don't think sexual titilation is bad but other people do..... so why sully bellydance's reputation when it does nothing to deserve that reputation (except for some dancers who do not care what impression they project)."
Call me lame if you must, but your opinion is so perfectly in line with mine, I just figured cutting and pasting would save me some typing. ;)
I do perform both, and I feel it is more than a little irresponsible to fuse the two, when bellydance is in the precarious position of being misunderstood by a lot of the public.
Miles Said:
"it is another shackle fastened on dancers who are burdened with quite enough already. I fear it is a shackle that we in the West all will come to feel as well. Meanwhile, from an artistic point of view, I always assume when a dancer resorts to this sort of approach, it is because that dancer lacks the talent to get attention in any other way. It is too bad those limitations can, and will, hurt others."
This is a part that echoes my feelings as well. It seems like the next thing to glom onto, to get people to sit up and take notice. How about...GREAT DANCING! Now that's a way to get my attention. It's such a funny thing that the concept of just getting really good at BELLYDANCE is such a foreign thing. I actually talked to a dancer at a recent workshop who said she started taking a class in another style because she so desperately wanted to come up with the "next big fusion idea", and was disappointed to learn some other group was doing it already. To that I say, WHY all this grasping and worry about coming up with the next big thing? How about just dancing and being YOU? *sigh* Obviously this touches a nerve for me! LOL
Anyway, in the end, I think it's funny that a guy who produced a show called "BABELESQUE", with some crazy chair dance act (commonly associated with stripping and burlesque), has issues with burlesque fusion. -
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Thu, April 10, 2008 - 11:45 AMDitto!!!!! Shay. (except I don't do the Burlesque - I'm too busy trying to learn more about just 1 dance form, thank you. It's all my poor brain can handle. ;-P)
Comments I heard at our last performance (from about 400 general public people attending Raks Mystique) "I never knew belly dance could be so mesmerizing." and "Oh my gosh, belly dancers are REAL dancers!" and finally "I never knew that This was belly dance - I thought they stripped!" Yes, we made it to the "seen and heard" section of our regular and online newspaper by, "Gasp!" belly dancing. We did not include Burlesque. There was a whole lot more to the evening, but that was our part. (You can go to www.daytondailynews.com and look up photos and Raks Mystique if you care to see...)
Anyway - there's my 2 cents.
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Thu, April 10, 2008 - 12:02 PMThis whole thing is very interesting to me....
The show of mine in the UK a few weeks ago that was referred to in the Gilded Serpent article- The Shimmy Shake Show in London, actually did NOT include belly dance burlesque FUSION, but merely presented the two together... which is, in my opinion, at least, no different than presenting belly dance together with samba, or Polynesian, or salsa, or any other form of dance- or performance.
And it came about because the producer, Sapphira, does perform both genres, as I do. ...as does Zoe Jakes!
For the record, I went ten years- a whole decade- performing both belly dance and burlesque ( and keeping them well separated) before i "came out" to the belly dance community.... and I have never performed or taught burlesque at a belly dance event unless i was asked to by the event's promoter...
...and in those cases I was adamant about program listings and announcements making sure the public viewers knew it was an an 'adult-themed" NON-belly dance type of show.
And usually the only times I have performed belly dance at an actual burlesque show, was in a situation where promoters practically begged me to because there was an abundance of burlesque performers TRYING to do belly dance or oriental-themed dances, but were un-trained in that form of dance.
However, i am proud to perform both styles of dance, and have done extensive research into the history of both, and spent more time than you can imagine perfecting both art forms.
As for the Shimmy Shake Show, it was a total success. the sold out crowd loved it. The whole thing was beautiful and tasteful- in both dance forms presented. There will be more. people in the Uk seem to have a far more relaxed view on this whole can o' worms.
No, belly dance is not burlesque, and vice versa. But as for the histories go, in America, anyway, they ARE intertwined, in myriad ways, and have been since the turn of the last century. Amongst other things, what is now considered the standard belly dance costume, or bedlah, was actually appropriated directly from American burlesque performers.
Just spend some time doing some research on this subject, and you will come up with far more connections.
And just in case you didn't know, ANY SORT OF PERFORMERS- ACTORS, SINGERS, CIRCUS ARTISTS, COMEDIANS, AND YES, DANCERS WERE CONSIDERED TO BE NOTHING BETTER THAN " GYPSIES, TRAMPS AND THIEVES" UNTIL ALMOST THE MIDDLE OF THE TWENTIETH CENTURY.
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Thu, April 10, 2008 - 12:25 PMPraise be to you sistah for saying EXACTLY what I have been thinking!
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Thu, April 10, 2008 - 1:46 PMPrincess F, if something is advertised as such, then everyone knows what they should be expecting. We're smart women who can differentiate what is going on. What I get really torqued about is when it is all lumped together and presented to the general public as a belly dance show. What I have seen recently in our area is a mixture of the two inappropriately presented at a public venue (recently a street festival), sometimes with vulgar music (insert lots of "F" words and "slap that B up" or "kill the cop" phrases). It's not cute.
At that point I want to run screaming. These events feature families with small children running around, and the public has NOT been informed as to what the show is - they are just told "come see the belly dancers". You'll have nice cab/ATS/fusion tribal routines - then get slapped in the face with something described above, out of the blue. Now we are talking about confusion and inappropriate venues for this type of show, not something like yours where it has been advertised as adult/variety/whatever, so people know what they are going to. So, yes, now I do cringe at all the BDSS wanna-be's with the new burlesque flavor that they have incorporated into their tribal routines "to make it their own". They aren't using good, common sense in choosing when it is or is not an appropriate venue to mix the two.
Eye and ear bleach for the kiddies anyone?
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Thu, April 10, 2008 - 2:27 PM"no different than presenting belly dance together with samba, or Polynesian, or salsa, or any other form of dance- or performance. "
I disagree. I feel that burlesque has a very different audience than the others you list. For the most part, Samba, Polynesian, Salsa...all family friendly and appropriate at a myriad of venues. Burlesque (or should be say neo-burlesque, which is less about the old vaudeville and more about stripping to the GP) is decidedly for adults.
And yes, I know the history of burlesque. I do it myself. And while some shows do bring back the old vaudeville, 99% of the shows I attend and perform in are exclusively stripping, or mostly stripping. How far they strip down, how they do it, what music they do it to, etc is irrelevant. That is not a family show.
So then when the general public gets yet another whiff of bellydance being paired with the idea of adult entertainment, opportunities to share bellydance in family venues dip further. Right now, I have the chance to teach at elementary schools, at family parties, at outdoor street fairs, and much more. I don't want that jeopardized, and ask nicely that people just keep the two as wide apart as fairly possible. Fusing it or presenting burly on a belly stage blurs those lines, and it does damage. -
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Fri, April 11, 2008 - 7:26 AMI opend this thread up with trepidation this morning, half expecting to be flamed out of my chair, but am pleased to see that didnt' happen. Thanks for letting me express my opinion, folks -
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Fri, April 11, 2008 - 9:11 AMJust curious, but has the recent comeback of burlesque and it's fusion with belly dance actually cost anyone jobs? Can you provide concrete, hard, factual proof that because of burlesque's recent rise in popularity you can actually say you have less gigs? AND, have the stupid comments (You belly dance? So do you do lap dances? etc.) actually increased for you since burlesque become more common?
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Fri, April 11, 2008 - 9:15 AMOh! Velvet Fifi, I think I was at the same street festival...nothing about that performance struck me as burlesque at all. It seemed to me to just be some sort of hip hop fusion done with a smirk to vulgar music. Which isn't the same as burlesque. Or I could be thinking of some other performance I saw somewhere else. -
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Fri, April 11, 2008 - 10:06 AMLet me clarify. The venue was supposed to be belly dance performances. Several different performances were mixed in (so far so good). There was the hip-hop with a lot of vulgarity. (Love, love, love the dancer, usually, but was offended with the language, especially with all the family/kids there). Then there were some other dancers there (don't know who they were, specifically - sorry about that but didn't catch their names), who were dancing to music that was pretty nice, but the outfits/style was something, again, that I would have saved for an adult-themed show.
You may disagree with me, but that's my personal opinion. I do know, in talking to men in general, that they love to see us do the burly thing, but that they are also looking at us like we are a piece of meat. "We" may feel empowered by doing this style, but how it/"we" are perceived by the general public and/or men, using our culture's morals litmus test (not what we wish for but what is), can be a whole other ball game. I'd love to know how many men feel they need to wiggle their butts around in skimpy clothes doing a chair routine so they can feel "empowered".
Further, to give you an example, I asked my hubby about this once. He thought it was terrific that other women went out and did burly. Didn't have much respect for them but loved the show and had lots of fantasies (read stupid grin on face as well). When I asked about how he would feel if I did it - he went ballistic. (Typical Madonna/Whore response). This is a response from a man who is about 50/50 on the scale between liberal and conservative, 40-something (demographic comparisons would be nice, here if anyone would like to go out and question men about how they really feel - especially those not in the "artistic" fields that tend to be much more forgiving).
Go out and ask a male what they REALLY think (if you can get them to 1) get the $hit-eating grin off their face, and 2) get them to be honest). Then go ask your mother or grandmother how she feels about your going out and doing this type of show.
As stated above, this is just my personal opinion from developed from personal experience.
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Re: note of appreciation
Fri, April 11, 2008 - 10:56 AMNot disagreeing: it was inappropriate. But it was NOT burlesque. Burlesque would have been inappropriate at this venue and type of show as well.
"Didn't have much respect for them but loved the show and had lots of fantasies (read stupid grin on face as well). "
That to me is the annoying part. Dudes who are happy to watch women take their clothes off but speak ill of the women later for doing it, or assume they're promiscuous, or stupid, etc. etc. etc. But I guess I digress.
I like burlesque and belly dance, I like learning both, I like performing both, they are very different to me and have their own contexts.
Sidebar: And I'm a huge Princess Farhana fan.
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Fri, April 11, 2008 - 11:14 AMJust an off topic thought--a lot of men (NOT ALL) look at women like they are meat....REGARDLESS of what they do....just the society we live in I suppose, women are only meant to pop out kids and be sex objects for men......regardless of what they do for fun or profession.....
Some ass hat in one of my classes in college said "me and my boys love harrassing women when they walk by." And was not sorry for saying it when all us women started giving him crap....
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Sat, April 12, 2008 - 1:39 PM<But it was NOT burlesque. Burlesque would have been inappropriate at this venue and type of show as well.>
Just a quick clarification of my latest post. I wasn't saying this person's Hip hop was burly. There was someone else that day (don't know who she was - I'd never seen her before but I know she wasn't from your group). This person had incorporated burly dance moves into her tribe routine. she was dressed totally fusion tribal.
Now - I just want to give some idea of why I'm so against putting the two back together again (burly and belly), let me give you just two examples from my own personal experience. I am not here to accuse or anything like that, I just want people to know that sometimes there really are repercussions that we have to deal with.
First example: Several years ago I was with my husband at a company event of his. He proudly told several people I belly dance (He is VERY supportive). the women in the office (conservative), gave me this look that was a sneer, lip curl like I smelled bad, walked away as fast as possible and snickered in little groups while looking at me and my husband. considering my husband was two of the only people bringing money into the company and carrying it, i don't really think they had a leg to stand on.
Second example: I was interviewing for a very nice job and was in the final running. then they did a search online of my "hobbies". When I asked why I didn't get the job, I was told that they chose the other person because, although I was the more qualified person, when they searched my name, it came up that I belly danced, and that because there was the perception of stripping, and they were a conservative outfit, they couldn't afford to employ someone that might offend their very conservative clients. I was not a "good fit". That was just recently. Yes, the lady was very nice, and she knew what belly dancing was. And I was actually surprised at how honest she was. But I'm glad I asked.
So, I have to be very, very careful about "outing" myself in the public eye. I think it is a good thing to remember that anything typed online is forever there. If I meet any of you in person, I'll introduce myself with my real name - but I won't state it online. Belly dance hasn't kept me from getting belly dancing related jobs, but it has kept me from getting good, well paying career jobs. The kind with benefits. Because of the "perception" of stripping.
I hope this post helps explain why, personally, I am so against mixing the two together. Follow your bliss, just realize it may come back to bite you.
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Fri, April 11, 2008 - 11:36 AM"I find it interesting that you call Samba "family-friendly" and yet consider burlesque to not be. I mean, Samba is awesome but does feature women in the smallest outfits ever--thongs, barely-there bikini tops, etc--and they're shaking their asses like there's no tomorrow. I'm not saying this is bad--I love me some samba!--but let's not kid ourselves here. "
Thank you Gibson - I was thinking the same thing. Also, the culture that spawned THAT dance has traditionally been a lot more free with their views on sexuality. It is not an american dance. -
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Re: Burlesque/Bellydance rant by Miles on GS
Fri, April 11, 2008 - 11:38 AMOh - and I gotta hand it to Miles. With a ne
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